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Not to worry, your individual spirituality is not at risk of mockery or abuse. Your awareness of the connectivity of your life with the entire energy matrix throughout the Cosmos is revealed and in that process your value and importance is recognized and encouraged. You are not alone, you have never been alone, and will never be alone here or throughout the Cosmos.

Limited Significance: In our Earthly surrounds some of us are significant while others are not. In some cases the insignificant are relegated to that status by other humans who have self-appointed themselves as significant. In our society, we also elevate some of us to levels of significance based upon our political, philosophical, artistic and humanitarian popularity and or efforts. Sadly, most of us are in that ignored status of insignificance As you will learn here, that is a meaningless status. Although sociologically we seek, even require, recognition from family, friends, communities, workers, etc., those acknowledgments are often fickle or tainted with specific performance requirements. Should we fail to meet these, we stand to drop into the anonymity of insignificance. Crushed and alone some of us leap away from life on Earth while others simply dissolve into permanent hopelessness. None of this is funny or acceptable.

Compassion, not pity, steps in and we insignificant are given new sets of performance requirements to master. Some of us do and rise up to Earthly significance. Rarely, if ever, are we told that we as life-forms hold eternal significance with all life and energy here on Earth and throughout the Cosmos. Yes, various religions seek to do this on a limited basis. They are limited because they too have requirements that must be mastered. Some of us fail here too, and are left to go crashing down again. Hope survives; so hang on.

Its Cosmic: Everything that surrounds us that is alive or supports life (air, water, energy, etc.) has significance here on Earth and throughout the Cosmos. We are part of that everything. All forms of energy surround us, impact us, and are within us and all of that binds us to each other and the Cosmos. The flutter of a bird’s wing matches the flutter of an excited human heart. The joyful thrumming of a happy cricket jangles us awake and then often provokes our giggles. The bright, flaming streak of a meteorite both alarms and invites us to consider what lies well beyond our Earthly confines. All striking reminders that we are not alone, and that we are all one together and are valuable.

On Being Valuable:  Yes, being valuable within the Cosmos may not ring any bells when added to a job resume’, but what that status inspires can fill a multi-paged resume’. Just knowing we are not alone, and knowing that the first and most important human to satisfy is ourselves permanently elevates us to significance status. Certainly, we often need help to sustain our significance and to prosper from it. In this regard, finding the key to the help doorway is often accomplished by being a help doorway ourselves. Our outstretched, helping hand can be the magic key that opens our own development pathway. Compassion is not a sedative, it is a stimulant for both the giver and the recipient. In responding to the grief or confusion of another person we usually find answers to our own quandaries. Enlightenment and hopefulness are mutually shared. Our outreach is not just human to human, it is across the entire spectrum of life here and , as we will learn, throughout the Cosmos. Our efforts to keep our home planet alive and well is as important in sustaining our significance as all that we may do for ourselves and for each other. Nurturing nature, which by virtue of its very existence nurtures us, is a vital and enriching effort. The more we do, in every respect raises us higher and higher.  Voila, we can become enriched and empowered.

Empowerment: The Real and the Fake: “All right, all right, who’s in charge here?” That bossy inquiry is courtesy of your psyche. Your answer should be a strong and confident, “I am.” Yes, the source of our real (virtual) empowerment is us. It begins within each of us and with proper care matures with a solid backbone of self-confidence and skills. Proper care is vital and complex. All life-forms go through this process of becoming empowered. For humans it is first our parents, then our peers and our schooling. Later is will be essentially ourselves and sometimes a caring soul-mate. Soul-mates can be what we term wives or husbands, but they also can be a relative or a trusted friend. In many cases, our only soul-mate is our own selves and our sense of being. This is the framework of true empowerment. It is within us, not external and fleeting.

Some of us fall prey to those who partially fulfill their own empowerment by empowering us in a manipulative way. In these instances we are not free or self-determining, we are rigidly enslaved by others who depend on our bondage to enforce their power. For us to break free from this we usually must stand alone, but as we have stated throughout here, we are never alone and so despite our physical aloneness we are one with the Cosmos. This is how we replace that false empowerment with the real power that is born within ourselves. This is not easy, and it is often emotionally and, sometimes, physically painful. If we prevail, then we are set free.

Freedom’s Obligations: Being free is not a gift. It is an earned reward and as such carries specific obligations. The chief among these is the commitment to promote freedom for others who may be falsely empowered and thus in an inescapable bondage. Traditionally, this has produced war-like actions that seek to liberate, but warfare creates its own bondages and thus sullies out acts of liberation with new enslavement. In these situations the price of freedom is far too expensive. Regardless, we must strive to diminish both physical, cognitive and spiritiual enslavement. The best method is to enable all those interactions discussed above that allow us to determine our own status and to recognize our value to ourselves, to all life on this planet and especially our value within the Cosmos. We can do it, but the challenge is, will we do it?

Enabling Cosmic Significance: If we answer the challenge above and strive for freedom for all life-forms we then begin to enable our Cosmic Significance. As this becomes reality, we are enriched, we are strengthened and as noted above we are set free. This imposes an infinite cycle  in which human life rejoins the Cosmos and then joyfully shares the energy and power of these cosmic alliances. We are strong, we are compassionate, we are creative and most importantly we are uniquely ourselves, but never, never alone.

So What Does All This Mean?: In a word, as we achieve unity with the Cosmos and all life that is within us and that surrounds us, we don’t just experience it, we become JOY.

IMAGE CREDIT: At the gateway to the Cosmos : “LifeZBeautiful http://lifezwonderful.blogspot.com/

SUGGESTED READING LIST:

“Growing Up In The Universe” – Richard Dawkins  http://tinyurl.com/3mspnpp

“Society and Cosmology” http://tinyurl.com/3myn4jf

“No Place Like Home: A Cosmic Imprint” http://tinyurl.com/3f65wbm

“The Cosmically Pivotal Moment” http://tinyurl.com/3wbgnnb

Book Review: “Is There Life Out There” http://tinyurl.com/42tfpxm

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An urgent reminder that applies globally

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The young girl-child, an eleven year old, had the typical social behaviors of children with one of the forms of autism. Direct exchanges with even family could be an extreme variable with the child often secluding herself in her room with shouts of “go away. go away.”

That same child was an incredible artist. Her sketches were detailed, balanced and accurate. Most of her drawings involved human figures and they were all attractive and often animated (she often drew complete scenes of human activity). There were never any signs of fear or hostility in her work. They were so striking they took your breath away. Problems arose only when someone would stop to view and compliment her on her work. The “go away” demand arose at once, and if a person persisted then the youngster would begin to shout and try to flee. I was one of those admiring persons and my reaction to the girl’s pleas was sadness. I was sad for her; that so much talent was so tightly locked in autism’s grip.

The young girl was not one of my clients, but because of my work with another client I was able to follow her progress. Through the wonderful efforts of a talented therapist and her loving parents, she began to understand her reactions and learned to begin to control them. As this happened she responded more openly and happily to praise and was encouraged by it. I am hoping that now, somewhere she is a successful illustrator and artist; finally at peace with herself and her world.

Yes, the youngster discussed above had clearly obvious talents and could be considered an exception. She is exceptional, but that does not deny the existence of hidden talents or gifts in other children with either severe disorders or with cognitive weaknesses. It is most severe in those children besieged with behavioral problems Those demand therapeutic and parental focus at the price of never discovering those hidden treasures within. Usually through aggressive applications of medications and some therapy these “behaviorally challenged” youngsters are quieted down and then overlooked; mostly from relief than from indifference. This must change to not let “calm” become the ultimate goal.

Regardless of the particular disorder or disability, the process of helping the child to achieve individuality and to expose that hidden gift is expensive, often tension filled, and elaborately time-consuming. Parents, schools, therapist all reach their respective levels of exhaustion and many children end up in a caretaker environment. We are talking about our future, and we need to innovate ways to improve each child’s opportunity to develop to their individual utmost. Right now, organizationally, financially, and professionally we have not got it right.

Part of the answer is extended individual attention, both therapeutic and emotionally supportive. In this regard, the strongest medication is parental love. Yes, even this vital support gets tattered and bruised. In fact it can tear families apart. For the wealthy this is less of a problem because of their ability to bring on “live in” support or at least daily support. For the rest, it is a terrible struggle that is often just levels of coping with limited or no active efforts to help the child control the child. Hidden behind all of this is that one skill or interest that is the key that can liberate the entire family. Finding and nurturing it is extremely challenging, if it is even initiated.

Here are six actions that need full implementation and support: (None of the following are unique and are only partially practiced today. What is needed is better organization, funding and direct prescriptive implementation for each child that is both followed and enforced).

  1. Increase a sustained program of support for families, especially the parents. This includes instructing the parents in ways they can be more helpful to the child, but also ways that they can ease their own anxieties and frustrations.

  2. Intervention therapies should be started as early as possible, and ideally well in advance of school age. Some of this should occur in the home to avoid separating the child from its most important support group.

  3. Behavioral modification based on earned reward concepts does not help the child understand what is going on inside. We must never assume the child does not or cannot understand. The child needs to be an active partner in the therapeutic process not just a recipient.

  4. There are very good existing therapy programs in speech, physical therapy, cognitive therapy, and occupational therapy, but all are severely limited by costs and variability of the diagnostic process and subsequent recommendations. It would not hurt, in my opinion, to ban the DSM IV and DSM V guides.

  5. The current reliance on pharmaceutical controls and not working to help the child develop self-controls abuses the use of medications and eliminates the vital “one-on-one” therapeutic exchange between therapist and child.  In a great many cases, the speech therapist winds up being the most successful in that important one-on-one therapy.

  6. The special aide or professional Therapeutic Staff Support (TSS) person is a vital element in the entire process both in the home and in the schools. Costs, more than any other reason, are the biggest barrier, although some parents, schools and teachers resent the TSS. This professional is the extension of that “one-on-one” vital process that can fully enable a successful liberation of the real child. A partnership develops and out of that partnership the child can begin to understand the child, and most importantly begin to like the child it gets to know. This opens the door to discovery of those hidden gifts.  For the child and for its parents it represents a newly found freedom and opportunity. For the lucky TSS it is a never forgotten reward.

I close with the story of an encounter between a therapist and a now college age youngster. The youngster, a young man, greeted and hugged that therapist exclaiming fondly. “you helped to liberate me and taught me to learn who I was and who I could be. I shall remember you and our times together, forever.” This kind of moment must become standard and to do that there must be changes across the entire spectrum of treatment, education and respite protocols for the child, the parents and the entire family.

Are we there yet?

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